2018: a penis odyssey (Depression, PIED, PE escpecially).

Originally Posted by Theyo

It's been about two weeks since I posted. Jhene (my penis) has made significant progress in edging. I can now edge, starting off for a minute or two stroking at a moderate - semi quick pace, and I'm able to better recognize the PONR. I've found that focusing on RKs while stroking somewhat triggers an involuntary kegel almost like activating any muscle in the pelvic floor contributes to an involuntary kegel and subsequent PONR. Simply focusing on keeping the region relaxed seems like the way to go. That being said, whenever I fantasize I find that I get EXTREMELY aroused and reach the PONR very quickly, around 20 seconds or so. I'm worried that even though I've made some progress physically that this mental barrier regarding arousal from fantasy will be extremely hard to overcome. On top of that I acquired a minor tear in my meniscus that will prevent me from squatting, deadlifting, and generally doing many pelvic floor stretches for several weeks or so..

Does anybody have any tips on increasing my PONR control while fantasizing? Should I just focus on the physical aspects and not fantasize at all? Will an increase in my resistance to physical stimulation even translate to actual sex if I just get too turned on in the first place?

Any and all advice is appreciated. Thanks!