Hello there

I've been lurking this forums (anonymously) since forever as I've always been interested in shaping up my unit (I'm content with it but hey, more is better, right?) but primarily because I'm suffering from severe premature ejaculation since I've first experienced sex with a partner.

This blog will be my journal through finally fixing that as it seems to be the perfect spot for it and I see it as another form of motivation and—who knows?—might serve others dealing with the same. Most seem to utilize regular forum threads for that but a blog looks more fitting to me.

Anyways, right now I don't intend to "promote" this blog in any form but if, by any chance, someone stumbles over it, I'll tell a little about myself:

I'm in my mid-thirties right now, 183 cm (6 feet) tall, and currently put a massive 106 kg (234 lbs) on the scales. That's class I obesity … another thing I'm going to fix. Also, as I think that it's somewhat of importance in my situation, I'm in a relationship, so real sex is at hand. :p

Now, a little bit more about my case of premE:

I'm pretty sure that I developed very bad habits through excessive abuse of porn (and masturbating to it, that is). I got into the sex game pretty late (had my first sex at the age of 20) and have never been the guy aiming for one-night stands or simply having sex. Yet, I have a pretty developed libido and since the dawn of the internet I turned to porn whenever I was not in a relationship (and oftentimes also then).

Masturbating happened almost every day and often multiple times per day; sometimes even two or three times in a row, and over time—as you can guess—it turned into just the desire the get off a load and to get on with things.

Currently, I'm able to masturbate to porn and cum in under 30 seconds; with the right mental stimulation even without porn. Real sex is even worse: A few seconds is what it mostly ends in. Sometimes directly after penetration. I do last a little bit longer (like 1 or 2 minutes) if we take it really slow and try to distract me, like chatting or doing maths (lol …). Also, I managed to cum even without (physical) stimulation during foreplay a few times (like giving oral or fingering her) just by being overly aroused.

So, in the end a pretty bad case, if you ask me.

I tried to fix things a few times but rather … halfheartedly. Also, I've always been very lucky to have understanding partners and sex has never been awfully bad. You learn to get better at other things in bed. ;) In the end though, it is a problem and causes more and more frustration. It's 2017 now, I'm not getting any younger and I finally decided to take matters into my own hands once and for all.

My next post will be about what I'm actually going to do (and already have done) to cure it, so stay tuned for that.

(P.S.: English's not my native tongue. Though I think my written English is quite ok, there might be things that come across weird or ambiguous. If that's the case, bear with me, correct me or simply ask and I try to clear up. I'm :cool: with that.)